I always say, its better to be on a decent team where you're going to get a ton of playing time and be the man, verses being on a top team and getting limited time. That's how you get better, not by standing on the sideline with 20 other kids
If your son is not on man up or man down you may want to look elsewhere. That is a good barometer to see what role he plays and what the coaches think of him.
