If you parents really think these girls are "friends", when they are constantly fighting to prove themselves over another, talking about Sally's bad play today, are shuffled around from team to team because they aren't "good enough" or they aren't getting enough play time, constantly being judged by others, and deep down incredibly insecure. You're crazy!! Most of them are fighting to keep their spot and aren't true friends. They are the first ones to shun each other when they aren't on the same team or they have a new clique.
ALL of these girls are incredibly talented!! I wish the coaches would develop them all as they deserve.
What kind of confident and kind women will we have when lacrosse world is over and real world starts.
Be kind people...
Many of these girls are friends and they are devastated when their friends are cut. Maybe your daughter and her friends judge one another but we have not had that experience. Most of these girls are close enough where they can talk about having a bad game and boost each other up for the next one. My daughter talks to her friends who play for other teams at tournaments at their team tents. No issues.
These girls are in high school now and there are tryouts for a reason. You can't blame the coaches for everything. There is a difference between girls that put in the extra time outside of practice and those who don't.
These girls need to learn that world isn't always fair and the real world has already started.
