Some kids parents are not lunatics trying to manufacture success for their kids.
If you have ever moved to a house that happened to have a higher than average price for that county due to the school district,
or cut a single tuition check after preschool,
or paid for a single day of sports or music lessons, or any type of tutor, guess what buddy.
That's exactly what you are doing. If you want to argue that you do it 5% less than some other dad, I guess, sure, go for that argument.