I agree that there are so many events now. Trying to decide which events to spend time, energy and $$ is hard. When it seems to be a “anyone can apply, pay and go” I’m not convinced that’s necessarily the best choice. At least for us.
I follow what girls are attending because if I know the competition is strong at the very least my kid is getting better playing against and with strong players. I also look to see who is training/coaching.