it's terrible to see that some of us think of our children as "investments" that have to garner a return. I PAY for my children to do what they do because they enjoy it. Who says a kid has to go to a non "sub par" school to be Happy and maybe they did spend as much time in the books as they did on the field. Your return on your "investment" should be their happiness.Good luck to that "4th teamer" may she find happiness from your love and "investment | 
