Lax should do what soccer and baseball have done going by birth year and not graduation year. That they don't is condoned cheating.
It is not cheating if there are no rules. The clubs own and run the tournaments - exception being the WSYL. While for some reason the very club directors that see and understand the recruiting landscape are the same people moving 12 and 13 year olds around to try to win some meaningless championship. Try not to spend too much worrying about the rules and winning and cheating - focus on your son having a good time and hopefully getting better at lacrosse.
