I went to a POS D3 school. I played lacrosse, but tat wasn't my primary goal in going there. I had a great time, got a decent education and then went on to grad school at Hopkins and U of MD. (while working a well-paying job) I've had a great career out earning most of my D1 peers so I'm not too worried where my kid ends up. Focus on education goals 1st, lax 2nd.