Ok, got it and as I acknowledged in my previous post, you don't quit. I was more interested in learning about what parents are talking to the coaches about in unhappy situations. Is anything 'off the table'. For instance, if you see your team continually being beaten in their attempt to clear the ball would you feel comfortable going up to the coach and telling him/her to please work on clearing? Maybe its something else bad defense or playing time. Is anything off the table?