To answer the question of who is the coach going to play, that’s easy, the girl who goes him or her the best chance to win, Allthe coaches mentioned before run very solid club programs, girls are coming them anyways, HS you don’t have that luxury and the coaches play to win, if you think otherwise than you prob have your mommy goggles on and the girl beating your daughter out is better. Blaming club affiliation is just an easy excuse for you. What is the excuse going to be when the same girl is still playing over your daughter with a new coach??