Appreciate all the dad lacrosse lessons, but have you been to a high school recruiting tournament? They are a different beast - LOTs of selfishness and for good reason. Coaches reward kids that "go to the cage" and score - that's the reality. Just watch when a kid scores, every coach's head drops and they make a note. When a kid beats his man, and moves the ball, only to have it stick in the next kids stick, most coaches (not all) don't bat an eye. Furthermore, no chance any of these club teams are getting the ball to a "fifth look in a motion offense", get real, most high school and even some college teams would struggle being that disciplined. Your example is lame.