This club as well as all the others that advertise on this website are a business. They are NOT for everyone and are intended to be that way for a few reasons. Do your research find the program that fits your childs ability,good coaching,your financial limit,and make a choice. Teach your child that life isn't fair and everyone cant win all the time or be the best in everything.Then just maybe then you will find some positives in the experience,and your child can have fun along the way while learing and developing as a player and a human being.