So many variables when deciding which program is best other than the 3 mentioned by the OP... Travel schedule, cost, coaching, skill level per grade, location, friends on those teams etc... Many valid points on here about problems with some teams but just be aware that it may not be the case with other teams within that program.
Long Island has so much talent and the top skill level is no longer concentrated within one or two programs anymore. Other teams in no particular order:
Legacy
Igloo
Empire
Jesters
Title 9
Bandits
Beach Bums
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91
Medusa
Fighting Ducks
Mama's Girls
Recon
I'm sure I missed some
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