You are missing my point completely. I didn't say to penalize the on age kids. Pull your teams from tournaments that don't abide by the age based rules you want. With old your money, make the tournaments know you don't approve. Penalize the organizers of these events. Money talks, BOTC is a useless platform to elicit change. Grab the director of your team and along with the other parents tell him NO MORE! If you don't have that type of commitment then forget it, never going to change.