"I've spoken to no less than 5 or 6 college coaches both in DII and DI over the past month or so and they are all exhausted by the club scene - they want to see your kid perform in their high school program to see how he plays a specific role within a system, takes direction and takes pride in his school uniform."
I have heard this also from a prominent div I program. Usually that's the coaches way of communicating to parents that your son is not on their radar, has not impressed them to date, and a way of saying they will check back this spring one last time but will probably pass on him.
OUCH!
