Havingh hera great things about the YJ program, and knowing a few of my daugters cronnies who currently play for YJ, I, for one, wish my daughter was studdly enough to play for YJ, but alas, she is not..so we play for a "below" YJ elite travel program and we are happy...oh, and life marches on.
Be happy for wherever your daughter is suiting up and make the most of it---it goes by in a blink of an eye..