I would hope that HS coaches would support the player knowing that he/she is committed to being the best they can be. Our HS team is priority, their practices and tournaments take precedence, but if a player has the opportunity to advance their level of play with a program that will allow them to do so, they should be able to do this without any ill feelings from coaches and HS team mates. Hard work and dedication is what should be recognized, as this is what builds character! The player obviously wants to learn and advance, trust me, they do not believe they are better than anyone else!