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Let’s try this again, since the original thread seems to be broken. Any thoughts/comments from parents of 2028 B Division girls??
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Did anyone see the games today?
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M&D VS Integrity…who will come out on top?!?!
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
M&D VS Integrity…who will come out on top?!?!

It was a good game. 5-3 at half.
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Great game! M&D for the win 9-6
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Agreed, it was a hard fought game by both sides and fun to watch! Both teams should be proud! I hope M&D represents the Mid-Atlantic region well at the National Championship and brings home the win!
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Glad there is a thread for these girls. Saw some of the M&D VS Coppermine game. M&D pulled away early and has a couple of really strong players. Good luck at the championships!
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M&D Red has 3 girls at least who are too good to play at this level.

Good them to them at Nationals. They will need to play their best to have a chance against Eagle Stix B who is probably the best B team in the country.
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The NGLL National Championship schedule is out and it looks like Eagles Stix B didn’t even make it…
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at least for 27, our coaches sent out a note saying schedule wasn't final.
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If you look at the regular season NGLL for GA, there were only two teams…Eaglestix and Beast. Beast beat Eaglestix in the only regular season game which is why they’re going and not EagleStix. The game wasn’t even close either. They lost 5-15, so I don’t think they’re the best B Division team in the country.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
How did Lax Impulse go for everyone? Do you think the fact that HoCo Black played against all B level teams, this means they will play in B next season? They did go 1-7 this past NGLL season but still had several teams end below them…hopefully there will be a C division introduced this year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
CCLax and Next Level played in other divisions so I don’t think that means much. They are both A teams
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What divisions do you mean?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
If you look at Standings and then click on Full Standings, you will see there were four different divisions based on the skill level that coaches submit when registering their team.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
There were 8 A teams in 3 different divisions at Impulse
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The interesting thing about teams submitting to a tournament director the skill level or bracket preference, it doesn’t always work out to what you’d want for your team. They place you where they place you and can be frustrating all the way around.
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The interesting thing about teams submitting to a tournament director the skill level or bracket preference, it doesn’t always work out to what you’d want for your team. They place you where they place you and can be frustrating all the way around.

Agreed!
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M&D families - can someone explain the different 2028 teams? It seems like Red and Black will both play in A next year, what about the new West team? M&D Shore will stay in B? Will Red players move up or will the team stay the same? Is the West team already formed or looking for players? Any other good B teams looking for players? Thanks.
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M&D families - can someone explain the different 2028 teams? It seems like Red and Black will both play in A next year, what about the new West team? M&D Shore will stay in B? Will Red players move up or will the team stay the same? Is the West team already formed or looking for players? Any other good B teams looking for players? Thanks.

West is basically just HoCo Pink. Seems they were unhappy and are moving as a team but will still add people that want to join.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Makes almost no sense to bring a team that’s unhappy to a new program together. M&D did this to LbC as well. M&D the only winner as they get you tryout money and dues and all the attention still goes to Black
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Our interpretation is that M&D Black is A, M&D Red is B and M&D West is C. Who knows where they will play but it seems that’s the order within the club
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Doesn't M&D Red have to move up to the A division next year because they won B?
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Correct on the M&D teams positioning. Black is their A team, Red is B team and their new "west" team is either a VERY low B team or probably more of a C team. Complete money grab by M&D (again)
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The other question is, what is happening at HOCO? This is the second team that has moved over.
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BAR Down. Woodbine.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
The other question is, what is happening at HOCO? This is the second team that has moved over.

They lack commitment of other programs.

25 team dropped significantly over the last year after a few left, including a student to M&D Black. 24 Black went from winning MidAtlantic in 2018 to not even existing by fall 2022.
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Makes almost no sense to bring a team that’s unhappy to a new program together. M&D did this to LbC as well. M&D the only winner as they get you tryout money and dues and all the attention still goes to Black
TLC did it with multiple folding teams. Bring them as one team then sort out after that (if i player deserved to be on their Red team).
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Is hoco 28 black also folding? Where will those girls go?
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I heard Integrity may make a “blue” team so maybe there… on either team. I would think the new M&D West team will pick up a bunch of HoCo girls even if they don’t fold.
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Integrity did not have any goalies tryout last year…what changed? What makes you think they will have enough players or goalies to make two teams?
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True Coast folded …they told parents two days ago. Recommended that they take those girls to MDU (owned by True). Will there be enough for MDU to have 3 2028 teams? Or will those girls go somewhere else?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Not the case this year
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Much movement with players on B teams? Would NGLL consider making 3 divisions? Seems like a big divide between the top teams and lowest teams.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
I’ve heard rumblings of this…I hope they do!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
There are plenty of teams for 3 divisions, it would benefit everyone.
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Thoughts...is it better for a player to get playing time as a starter on a B team, or be a 2nd or 3rd tier player on an A team at this age?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Absolutely! Girls aren’t developing sitting on the bench. When it comes time for recruiting you are more likely to be seen playing on a B level team then sitting the bench on an A team.
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100% agree
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Any 2028 openings for a midfield/attack player?
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Any 2028 openings for a midfield/attack player?
Did you look at TLC, they don't seem to have a large roster
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Absolutely! Girls aren’t developing sitting on the bench. When it comes time for recruiting you are more likely to be seen playing on a B level team then sitting the bench on an A team.

Don’t most clubs have policy if equal PT in HS age?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Where are you? Maybe try TLC, Limelight, Legends
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Curious about this too. Anyone have older daughters playing lacrosse? Any clubs better at playing girls equally in HS?
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Absolutely! Girls aren’t developing sitting on the bench. When it comes time for recruiting you are more likely to be seen playing on a B level team then sitting the bench on an A team.

Don’t most clubs have policy if equal PT in HS age?

Capital is the only one with an equal time policy but they don’t follow it. Most teams will play their bench during sophomore year but starters will always play more, as it should be.
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I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.
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I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

Some club directors feel like parents are paying for a service, one of which is to be seen so they are owed to get the kids out there equally.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

Some club directors feel like parents are paying for a service, one of which is to be seen so they are owed to get the kids out there equally.

My 24 went to NJ, Hershey PA, and TX two times between 10th & 11th grade to the tune of at least @$2,000 spent on travel and hotels. Plus many more tournaments around MD and Philly that still required traveling. We live in MD so our travel is minimal but other teams at all the same tournaments are coming from as far as California. No one wants to travel and spend money for their kid not to play. These clubs need to take girls that can actually play on the team they're placed on and not full roster spots for money. And while I agree that it used to be being the best earned playing time club sports and showcases have changed the dynamics
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There is big difference between equal PT and not playing the bench.

With the exception of playoff games, I'd say most teams play starters 80% of time and backups 20-30%. Usually starters play first 10 minutes of game and last 10 minutes of game if competitive and the backups get PT in the minutes in between. Goalies typically split time except for playoff games.

That usually works and keeps most folks happy. Exceptions are often made in playoff games or in the last pool play game if a win is needed to advance to playoffs.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

If the club doesn’t think the player is good enough to be on the field, they should not take them on the team. At this level, there shouldn’t be a huge discrepancy in talent from top to bottom.
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There is big difference between equal PT and not playing the bench.

This right here. DDs team has everyone play every game; however, it is not equal because it is clear who the best players are. If the game is not close, those that don't play as much get more time (even in a bad loss because at that point, starters aren't winning the game you may as well try the others)
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

If the club doesn’t think the player is good enough to be on the field, they should not take them on the team. At this level, there shouldn’t be a huge discrepancy in talent from top to bottom.

You’d be surprised at number of families that beg to be on a top team and then become unhappy when their daughter doesn’t play half of every game even when coach has laid it out for them or their daughter isn’t producing. Then when they get cut or moved down the next year they [Censored] the whole organization.
Idea for club directors. Limit teams to 21 players.
2 goalies. 6 defenders , 6 attackers , 6 midfielders. 1 girl that can help a couple spots. Increases play time and players should be getting developed more.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

If the club doesn’t think the player is good enough to be on the field, they should not take them on the team. At this level, there shouldn’t be a huge discrepancy in talent from top to bottom.

You’d be surprised at number of families that beg to be on a top team and then become unhappy when their daughter doesn’t play half of every game even when coach has laid it out for them or their daughter isn’t producing. Then when they get cut or moved down the next year they [Censored] the whole organization.
Idea for club directors. Limit teams to 21 players.
2 goalies. 6 defenders , 6 attackers , 6 midfielders. 1 girl that can help a couple spots. Increases play time and players should be getting developed more.

That's a good mix. The challenge even with that mix is that the backup middies are usually better than some or even most of the starting defenders and attackers (especially defenders at the middle school level). Almost invariably, the worst players on the team are the 6th attacker and the 4th, 5th and 6th defenders.

On my daughter's team, all 6 middies start. 3 at middle, 2 at defense and 1 at attacker. When starting middle line gets tired, usually 1 goes to attack, 1 goes to defense and the 3 middies starting at other positions go to middie and a a couple defenders and one attack get rotated in.

On average, I'd say the 6 middies and best attacker probably play on average 90% of the game in competitive games and the rest of the playing time for the other 4 field positions is shared across 10 or 11 players.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

If the club doesn’t think the player is good enough to be on the field, they should not take them on the team. At this level, there shouldn’t be a huge discrepancy in talent from top to bottom.

You’d be surprised at number of families that beg to be on a top team and then become unhappy when their daughter doesn’t play half of every game even when coach has laid it out for them or their daughter isn’t producing. Then when they get cut or moved down the next year they [Censored] the whole organization.
Idea for club directors. Limit teams to 21 players.
2 goalies. 6 defenders , 6 attackers , 6 midfielders. 1 girl that can help a couple spots. Increases play time and players should be getting developed more.

You'd be surprised at the number of people who think this is actually true or the norm, but its not. Most coaches can't give constructive feedback or provide coaching to girls that either "aren't producing" or not playing. They simply play the starters and thats it with little to no real coaching feedback. This is what really occurs. Often times, players that start and get 80% or more playing time are not better than some on the bench but have been there longer, or parent coaching.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

If the club doesn’t think the player is good enough to be on the field, they should not take them on the team. At this level, there shouldn’t be a huge discrepancy in talent from top to bottom.

You’d be surprised at number of families that beg to be on a top team and then become unhappy when their daughter doesn’t play half of every game even when coach has laid it out for them or their daughter isn’t producing. Then when they get cut or moved down the next year they [Censored] the whole organization.
Idea for club directors. Limit teams to 21 players.
2 goalies. 6 defenders , 6 attackers , 6 midfielders. 1 girl that can help a couple spots. Increases play time and players should be getting developed more.

You'd be surprised at the number of people who think this is actually true or the norm, but its not. Most coaches can't give constructive feedback or provide coaching to girls that either "aren't producing" or not playing. They simply play the starters and thats it with little to no real coaching feedback. This is what really occurs. Often times, players that start and get 80% or more playing time are not better than some on the bench but have been there longer, or parent coaching.

To be fair, how often do girls themselves (not the parents) reach out to coaches for feedback? Very rarely in my experience. Should coaches be proactive in providing feedback, yet. But ultimately, it is on the player themselves to reach out for feedback. In my family's experience, it is very rare for a club coach not to give construction feedback when directly asked by player.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

If the club doesn’t think the player is good enough to be on the field, they should not take them on the team. At this level, there shouldn’t be a huge discrepancy in talent from top to bottom.

You’d be surprised at number of families that beg to be on a top team and then become unhappy when their daughter doesn’t play half of every game even when coach has laid it out for them or their daughter isn’t producing. Then when they get cut or moved down the next year they [Censored] the whole organization.
Idea for club directors. Limit teams to 21 players.
2 goalies. 6 defenders , 6 attackers , 6 midfielders. 1 girl that can help a couple spots. Increases play time and players should be getting developed more.

You'd be surprised at the number of people who think this is actually true or the norm, but its not. Most coaches can't give constructive feedback or provide coaching to girls that either "aren't producing" or not playing. They simply play the starters and thats it with little to no real coaching feedback. This is what really occurs. Often times, players that start and get 80% or more playing time are not better than some on the bench but have been there longer, or parent coaching.

This is good! I have heard this lots but the top kids seem to play more on every team they are on make the all star teams as well while the parent who’s daughter is buried behind the coaches kid always struggles more. Often times!!! That’s funny.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
IMO, kids under the age of 14, really have a tough time communicating with a coach, especially about their own performance. End of day, the parents are the decision makers and should be aware of all feedback. No different than a child performance at school. If there are academic or behavioral issues, the parents should be informed.

You'd also be surprised how many behavioral issues at practices/games relate directly to playing time and how that child is viewed as an asset or not to the team.
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IMO, kids under the age of 14, really have a tough time communicating with a coach, especially about their own performance. End of day, the parents are the decision makers and should be aware of all feedback. No different than a child performance at school. If there are academic or behavioral issues, the parents should be informed.

You'd also be surprised how many behavioral issues at practices/games relate directly to playing time and how that child is viewed as an asset or not to the team.

Maybe so, but it's a skill kids need to learn. Most clubs have policies around this. All worded differently, but pretty much say that any communicated to coaches needs to be done through the player.
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I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

If the club doesn’t think the player is good enough to be on the field, they should not take them on the team. At this level, there shouldn’t be a huge discrepancy in talent from top to bottom.

You’d be surprised at number of families that beg to be on a top team and then become unhappy when their daughter doesn’t play half of every game even when coach has laid it out for them or their daughter isn’t producing. Then when they get cut or moved down the next year they [Censored] the whole organization.
Idea for club directors. Limit teams to 21 players.
2 goalies. 6 defenders , 6 attackers , 6 midfielders. 1 girl that can help a couple spots. Increases play time and players should be getting developed more.

That's a good mix. The challenge even with that mix is that the backup middies are usually better than some or even most of the starting defenders and attackers (especially defenders at the middle school level). Almost invariably, the worst players on the team are the 6th attacker and the 4th, 5th and 6th defenders.

On my daughter's team, all 6 middies start. 3 at middle, 2 at defense and 1 at attacker. When starting middle line gets tired, usually 1 goes to attack, 1 goes to defense and the 3 middies starting at other positions go to middie and a a couple defenders and one attack get rotated in.

On average, I'd say the 6 middies and best attacker probably play on average 90% of the game in competitive games and the rest of the playing time for the other 4 field positions is shared across 10 or 11 players.

The really good teams don’t play all mids because they have really good defenders and attack players. This way they can rotate the mid lines to keep them fresh and wear down the opposing team. I find the better teams place their fastest players on defense and some of these defenders could easily play mid. Too many people think their kids are mids but can’t play good D and true mids have to be able to play both good D and offense.
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
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Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

If the club doesn’t think the player is good enough to be on the field, they should not take them on the team. At this level, there shouldn’t be a huge discrepancy in talent from top to bottom.

You’d be surprised at number of families that beg to be on a top team and then become unhappy when their daughter doesn’t play half of every game even when coach has laid it out for them or their daughter isn’t producing. Then when they get cut or moved down the next year they [Censored] the whole organization.
Idea for club directors. Limit teams to 21 players.
2 goalies. 6 defenders , 6 attackers , 6 midfielders. 1 girl that can help a couple spots. Increases play time and players should be getting developed more.

That's a good mix. The challenge even with that mix is that the backup middies are usually better than some or even most of the starting defenders and attackers (especially defenders at the middle school level). Almost invariably, the worst players on the team are the 6th attacker and the 4th, 5th and 6th defenders.

On my daughter's team, all 6 middies start. 3 at middle, 2 at defense and 1 at attacker. When starting middle line gets tired, usually 1 goes to attack, 1 goes to defense and the 3 middies starting at other positions go to middie and a a couple defenders and one attack get rotated in.

On average, I'd say the 6 middies and best attacker probably play on average 90% of the game in competitive games and the rest of the playing time for the other 4 field positions is shared across 10 or 11 players.

The really good teams don’t play all mids because they have really good defenders and attack players. This way they can rotate the mid lines to keep them fresh and wear down the opposing team. I find the better teams place their fastest players on defense and some of these defenders could easily play mid. Too many people think their kids are mids but can’t play good D and true mids have to be able to play both good D and offense.

I agree with that at high school, but not at 7th grade.
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I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

If the club doesn’t think the player is good enough to be on the field, they should not take them on the team. At this level, there shouldn’t be a huge discrepancy in talent from top to bottom.

You’d be surprised at number of families that beg to be on a top team and then become unhappy when their daughter doesn’t play half of every game even when coach has laid it out for them or their daughter isn’t producing. Then when they get cut or moved down the next year they [Censored] the whole organization.
Idea for club directors. Limit teams to 21 players.
2 goalies. 6 defenders , 6 attackers , 6 midfielders. 1 girl that can help a couple spots. Increases play time and players should be getting developed more.

That's a good mix. The challenge even with that mix is that the backup middies are usually better than some or even most of the starting defenders and attackers (especially defenders at the middle school level). Almost invariably, the worst players on the team are the 6th attacker and the 4th, 5th and 6th defenders.

On my daughter's team, all 6 middies start. 3 at middle, 2 at defense and 1 at attacker. When starting middle line gets tired, usually 1 goes to attack, 1 goes to defense and the 3 middies starting at other positions go to middie and a a couple defenders and one attack get rotated in.

On average, I'd say the 6 middies and best attacker probably play on average 90% of the game in competitive games and the rest of the playing time for the other 4 field positions is shared across 10 or 11 players.

The really good teams don’t play all mids because they have really good defenders and attack players. This way they can rotate the mid lines to keep them fresh and wear down the opposing team. I find the better teams place their fastest players on defense and some of these defenders could easily play mid. Too many people think their kids are mids but can’t play good D and true mids have to be able to play both good D and offense.

I agree with that at high school, but not at 7th grade.

Maybe on the B teams. On the A teams they all have dedicated defenders. Their kids don’t rotate to attack or defense to keep them fresh.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Know a girl that quit a top team because midfielders were put on attack in bigger games. Their top kids were midfielders. Not defending the kid but it did happen somewhere.
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I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

If the club doesn’t think the player is good enough to be on the field, they should not take them on the team. At this level, there shouldn’t be a huge discrepancy in talent from top to bottom.

You’d be surprised at number of families that beg to be on a top team and then become unhappy when their daughter doesn’t play half of every game even when coach has laid it out for them or their daughter isn’t producing. Then when they get cut or moved down the next year they [Censored] the whole organization.
Idea for club directors. Limit teams to 21 players.
2 goalies. 6 defenders , 6 attackers , 6 midfielders. 1 girl that can help a couple spots. Increases play time and players should be getting developed more.

That's a good mix. The challenge even with that mix is that the backup middies are usually better than some or even most of the starting defenders and attackers (especially defenders at the middle school level). Almost invariably, the worst players on the team are the 6th attacker and the 4th, 5th and 6th defenders.

On my daughter's team, all 6 middies start. 3 at middle, 2 at defense and 1 at attacker. When starting middle line gets tired, usually 1 goes to attack, 1 goes to defense and the 3 middies starting at other positions go to middie and a a couple defenders and one attack get rotated in.

On average, I'd say the 6 middies and best attacker probably play on average 90% of the game in competitive games and the rest of the playing time for the other 4 field positions is shared across 10 or 11 players.

The really good teams don’t play all mids because they have really good defenders and attack players. This way they can rotate the mid lines to keep them fresh and wear down the opposing team. I find the better teams place their fastest players on defense and some of these defenders could easily play mid. Too many people think their kids are mids but can’t play good D and true mids have to be able to play both good D and offense.

I agree with that at high school, but not at 7th grade.

Maybe on the B teams. On the A teams they all have dedicated defenders. Their kids don’t rotate to attack or defense to keep them fresh.

Lots of top teams do this including Coppermine and M and D. Maybe not as described above but definitely part of your rotation. Actually top teams do it more since they are more likely to use attacking/defensive middies or have an attacker take the draw which also impacts position definitions.

Ask yourself this— who is a better defender, your 4th Middie or your 4th attacker? Who is a better offensive player, your 4th Middie or your 4th attacker?

For almost any top team, the 4th Middie is better in both instances.

The best coaches will usually have their 11 best field players on the field at crunch time. This usually means at least one of your backup middies.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
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I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

If the club doesn’t think the player is good enough to be on the field, they should not take them on the team. At this level, there shouldn’t be a huge discrepancy in talent from top to bottom.

You’d be surprised at number of families that beg to be on a top team and then become unhappy when their daughter doesn’t play half of every game even when coach has laid it out for them or their daughter isn’t producing. Then when they get cut or moved down the next year they [Censored] the whole organization.
Idea for club directors. Limit teams to 21 players.
2 goalies. 6 defenders , 6 attackers , 6 midfielders. 1 girl that can help a couple spots. Increases play time and players should be getting developed more.

That's a good mix. The challenge even with that mix is that the backup middies are usually better than some or even most of the starting defenders and attackers (especially defenders at the middle school level). Almost invariably, the worst players on the team are the 6th attacker and the 4th, 5th and 6th defenders.

On my daughter's team, all 6 middies start. 3 at middle, 2 at defense and 1 at attacker. When starting middle line gets tired, usually 1 goes to attack, 1 goes to defense and the 3 middies starting at other positions go to middie and a a couple defenders and one attack get rotated in.

On average, I'd say the 6 middies and best attacker probably play on average 90% of the game in competitive games and the rest of the playing time for the other 4 field positions is shared across 10 or 11 players.

The really good teams don’t play all mids because they have really good defenders and attack players. This way they can rotate the mid lines to keep them fresh and wear down the opposing team. I find the better teams place their fastest players on defense and some of these defenders could easily play mid. Too many people think their kids are mids but can’t play good D and true mids have to be able to play both good D and offense.

I agree with that at high school, but not at 7th grade.

Maybe on the B teams. On the A teams they all have dedicated defenders. Their kids don’t rotate to attack or defense to keep them fresh.

Lots of top teams do this including Coppermine and M and D. Maybe not as described above but definitely part of your rotation. Actually top teams do it more since they are more likely to use attacking/defensive middies or have an attacker take the draw which also impacts position definitions.

Ask yourself this— who is a better defender, your 4th Middie or your 4th attacker? Who is a better offensive player, your 4th Middie or your 4th attacker?

For almost any top team, the 4th Middie is better in both instances.

The best coaches will usually have their 11 best field players on the field at crunch time. This usually means at least one of your backup middies.

Ask yourself this... why am in here reading this
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
What B teams look best this year since m&D red is an A team now?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
How did the B teams look yesterday? I guess M&D Red is still the team to beat?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
I wonder why M&D Red played in the easier bracket…especially if they’re planning on playing in the A division this year. Maybe they lost some girls to M&D West because the location worked better? Either way, the performance by the newly formed M&D West was impressive. It will be interesting to see if they play in A or B this year.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Who is 3d Maryland and MD United North, are these old club teams with a new name?
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Who is 3d Maryland and MD United North, are these old club teams with a new name?

3d MD is the old Renegades with a few others. MDU North came out of the HoCo debacle. HoCo black and pink girls scattered around with some ending up at M&D Red and West, some at Coppermine and some at MDU.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
I’m not sure about 3D MD but MDU North is a new team formed partly from the True Coast team that dissolved. Basically MDU’s third C team.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
The HoCo girls are mostly with M&D West, not MDU North. These team names are getting confusing so it’s easy to get them mixed up!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

If the club doesn’t think the player is good enough to be on the field, they should not take them on the team. At this level, there shouldn’t be a huge discrepancy in talent from top to bottom.

You’d be surprised at number of families that beg to be on a top team and then become unhappy when their daughter doesn’t play half of every game even when coach has laid it out for them or their daughter isn’t producing. Then when they get cut or moved down the next year they [Censored] the whole organization.
Idea for club directors. Limit teams to 21 players.
2 goalies. 6 defenders , 6 attackers , 6 midfielders. 1 girl that can help a couple spots. Increases play time and players should be getting developed more.

You'd be surprised at the number of people who think this is actually true or the norm, but its not. Most coaches can't give constructive feedback or provide coaching to girls that either "aren't producing" or not playing. They simply play the starters and thats it with little to no real coaching feedback. This is what really occurs. Often times, players that start and get 80% or more playing time are not better than some on the bench but have been there longer, or parent coaching.

So you are now qualified to evaluate a coaches skill at coaching and evaluating their team. I assume you are a parent and your kid isn’t a starter and you learned the game from watching your sports.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What B teams look best this year since m&D red is an A team now?

M&D red is not an A team. They would not do well there. They will stay in B so the parents win and can say they are awesome without ever having to prove it.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
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Know a girl that quit a top team because midfielders were put on attack in bigger games. Their top kids were midfielders. Not defending the kid but it did happen somewhere.

Did this girls daddy tell you that the top 6 middies all went to top schools and his daughter had nothing then ? That’s the reason she likely quit!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What B teams look best this year since m&D red is an A team now?

M&D red is not an A team. They would not do well there. They will stay in B so the parents win and can say they are awesome without ever having to prove it.
They have to be in A for NGLL in the spring but I agree they will enter tournaments in mid-B brackets that they know they can win.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

If the club doesn’t think the player is good enough to be on the field, they should not take them on the team. At this level, there shouldn’t be a huge discrepancy in talent from top to bottom.

You’d be surprised at number of families that beg to be on a top team and then become unhappy when their daughter doesn’t play half of every game even when coach has laid it out for them or their daughter isn’t producing. Then when they get cut or moved down the next year they [Censored] the whole organization.
Idea for club directors. Limit teams to 21 players.
2 goalies. 6 defenders , 6 attackers , 6 midfielders. 1 girl that can help a couple spots. Increases play time and players should be getting developed more.

You'd be surprised at the number of people who think this is actually true or the norm, but its not. Most coaches can't give constructive feedback or provide coaching to girls that either "aren't producing" or not playing. They simply play the starters and thats it with little to no real coaching feedback. This is what really occurs. Often times, players that start and get 80% or more playing time are not better than some on the bench but have been there longer, or parent coaching.

So you are now qualified to evaluate a coaches skill at coaching and evaluating their team. I assume you are a parent and your kid isn’t a starter and you learned the game from watching your sports.

There are coaches on the sideline (who played the game) watching lesser qualified coaches attempting to coach their kids on these top club teams. All while these top club coaches play daddy ball, make poor talent assessments and really are average coaches on a good day.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Wow you sound bitter about something!
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What B teams look best this year since m&D red is an A team now?

M&D red is not an A team. They would not do well there. They will stay in B so the parents win and can say they are awesome without ever having to prove it.

I thought if you won the B division you were required to move up to A?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
I get Club Lacrosse is about being seen but I don’t understand this belief that equal PT is required. Don’t we want our kids to value hard work and earning PT? Find a team without parent coaching and let the kids learn the importance of earning something and let’s stop the belief of entitlement. Just find the right level of play for our daughters to succeed.

If the club doesn’t think the player is good enough to be on the field, they should not take them on the team. At this level, there shouldn’t be a huge discrepancy in talent from top to bottom.

You’d be surprised at number of families that beg to be on a top team and then become unhappy when their daughter doesn’t play half of every game even when coach has laid it out for them or their daughter isn’t producing. Then when they get cut or moved down the next year they [Censored] the whole organization.
Idea for club directors. Limit teams to 21 players.
2 goalies. 6 defenders , 6 attackers , 6 midfielders. 1 girl that can help a couple spots. Increases play time and players should be getting developed more.

You'd be surprised at the number of people who think this is actually true or the norm, but its not. Most coaches can't give constructive feedback or provide coaching to girls that either "aren't producing" or not playing. They simply play the starters and thats it with little to no real coaching feedback. This is what really occurs. Often times, players that start and get 80% or more playing time are not better than some on the bench but have been there longer, or parent coaching.

So you are now qualified to evaluate a coaches skill at coaching and evaluating their team. I assume you are a parent and your kid isn’t a starter and you learned the game from watching your sports.

There are coaches on the sideline (who played the game) watching lesser qualified coaches attempting to coach their kids on these top club teams. All while these top club coaches play daddy ball, make poor talent assessments and really are average coaches on a good day.

Why aren’t you coaching then?
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What B teams look best this year since m&D red is an A team now?

M&D red is not an A team. They would not do well there. They will stay in B so the parents win and can say they are awesome without ever having to prove it.

I thought if you won the B division you were required to move up to A?

No although most do. There have been teams that won the B division in back-to-back years before.
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What B teams look best this year since m&D red is an A team now?

M&D red is not an A team. They would not do well there. They will stay in B so the parents win and can say they are awesome without ever having to prove it.

I thought if you won the B division you were required to move up to A?

No although most do. There have been teams that won the B division in back-to-back years before.

Winning 1 year it is suggested, but not required. If you win 2 years in a row you are required to move up the next year. Which is a moot point this year because there is no more NGLL after this
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
Originally Posted by Anonymous
What B teams look best this year since m&D red is an A team now?

M&D red is not an A team. They would not do well there. They will stay in B so the parents win and can say they are awesome without ever having to prove it.

I thought if you won the B division you were required to move up to A?

I believe this year NGLL A division will include Heros White, M&D Red, and MDU West. League suggested Integrity move up so as to not have 2 teams in the B division but they declined. While the 3 teams mentioned will likely struggles against the top teams in the A, 8th grade NGLL has enough teams that they will have some competitive games for sure.

Tournaments are a different situation. Tournament directors will not allow a club's B team in the top divisions (which is typically appropriate based on teams from other areas).
Posted By: Anonymous Re: 2028 Girls - Mid Atlantic B -
Too bad the NGLL doesn’t split the league into A-B-C like they should! It would solve a lot of problems and the teams would be so much better aligned and competitive with one another.
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Too bad the NGLL doesn’t split the league into A-B-C like they should! It would solve a lot of problems and the teams would be so much better aligned and competitive with one another.

How about 10 divisions of 4 teams. That way there are 10 champions. NGLL was started as an elite league for competition at the highest level. If you really want a C level then save your money and play MYLA
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