well, I appreciate the comments above, and perhaps it is different for goalie. My boy is a year older and middie. The coaches he reached (about half that he contacted) sent back a questionnaire that asked for highlight tape, grades, schedule of events to be attended, HS coach, club coach... A few also sent the prospect day flyer. But since they can't reach out to you directly, you need to tell his JV and Varsity coaches which schools in the event they may actually make contact. Best of luck to your son. | 
