I do believe we all are given a set rules and standards that both the kids and parents agree to abide by.
This is for all sports, we all know what is expected. The problem is the enforcement of these standards.
All to often the "board of directors" or similar entitiy is not quick to enforce these rules on a daily basis, out of fear of retribution, ie...not being re-elected to their positon, appearimg unpopular etc....
If rules were enforced daily, perhaps things would not escalate to what happened above....
Too often, the parents are a terrible role model.... | 
