It is so unnecessary. It is toxic parents on the team creating such unnecessary drama heading into the biggest summer of the season for these girls. If the "me ball" was as bad as you want an anonymous forum to believe, the coaches would be seeing it and doing something about it. Every parent will always believe a player holds onto the ball longer than she should, especially if that parent's kid is wide open. Get over it. You are not the one on the field playing. If your PLAYER feels the "me ball" is a problem, tell your PLAYER to go talk to the coach so that you can stop your tantrums on an online forum.