I have been through this end to end a few times. Just find a place where son plays, the coaches are dedicated, and the team is decent enough win some tourneys. Yes, the top team is always the goal, but it can and will be frustrating for you and your son to be in the bottom half of any roster. There are so many good options. And the top are always looking to add and improve through recruitment more so than development. It’s a results driven process via winning.
This is the truth, well said.
