Originally Posted by Anonymous
One of the many great thing about travel lacrosse is that it prepares boys for high school and college sports, which in turn prepare them for real life. Look at the holdback debate this way. Families who are successful, rich, and well connected find a way to make the system work in their favor. Those who do not fall into those categories can take one of two paths - figure out a way to thrive and be happy within the system, or complain endlessly how the successful, rich, and well connected get their way. That is travel lacrosse, and that is real life, whether you like it or not.

Turn your statement around. It should read: Families who make the system work in their favor, find a way to become connected, successful and rich. This is real life.

Also, just because some families holdback their kids doesn’t mean they can afford it. I am not a supporter of holdbacks but to each and their own.