These programs are not actively going out and finding college programs for your daughters. As the individual above notes, it's on the shoulders of the player and parents to do the work in terms of going to on-campus clinics, showcases, etc. Winning also becomes less of a priority in high school, in club, as the vast majority of the touraments become showcases so you're not playing for a championship. It's about playing your best against top-level talent and getting good tape to share.