Originally Posted by Anonymous
This^^^. Every kid is different. If you have more than one child you know this easily. Wouldn’t life be great if all kids wanted and did the exact same thing? Guess what….not happening. I know of former YJ girls that “lived their parents dream” and gave up lax once time to go to college. Unthinkable? It happens. I have nieces and nephews who grew out of sports sophomore and junior year. Good athletes scholarship potentials. Some kids realize they don’t want it….they’ve either done it for their parents or grown out of it. It does happen and it break parents hearts. So if your daughter doesn’t want or get into one of the top 10/20/30….who gives a [Censored]? Life is too short. Let them lead a life that they want. But don’t [Censored] on girls and families who either choose different schools for different reasons or can’t get into one of YOUR “top” schools. Over 550 schools…something for everyone. Some kids will play for no $ because they just want to play. And that’s 100% ok.

This. 100%