Any advice for missing hs games for elite club games and how to best message? Tips and cautionary tales appreciated.
Don't do it. School ball ALWAYS comes first
The MUCH larger question is why is a club even trying to make this conflict happen? There is ZERO reason to be playing anything club during the HS season.
Clubs have all summer, fall ball and in some cases winter ball. No reason any club should be asking their kids to miss HS practice or games for club sports. None.