“What specifically do you expect?”
At the very least some resources and guidance!
“What specifically do you expect?”
At the very least some resources and guidance!
Specifically, what kind of resources and exactly what would you like guidance on?
I’m not trying to be an Meanyjust trying to help people understand that parents and players have to take things into their own hands.
It appears that some of you are not able to articulate exactly the type of help that you are seeking.
I have been through this process multiple times, each time there have been a number of parents of players on kids teams that become frustrated and most of the time it is because they have unrealistic sense of where their daughter stands in relation to other players including teammates. If let’s say coaches from BC, UNC, Northwestern, Maryland, Syracuse, Princeton, Penn, Notre Dame, Duke and Virginia all watch the kid play on multiple occasions and none of the coaches are willing to offer the player a spot it’s not because the club didn’t help. The players that receive offers from programs of that caliber in general do not need any help.
If you are looking for help, take the time to identify specifically what you would like the club/director/coach to help with.
If you want them to call a college coach , then ask them to do it.
If you would like guidance on which camps to go to or which showcases to go to, then ask.
Do not sit and wait for the club…. Take action and ask for what you want / need.
