There are so many factors that determine the financial package awarded to your laxer. Just as no two people are alike...get it. With that said here are some factors, 1 talent level. 2 grades. 3 willingness to travel far away or stay close to home. 4 willingness to settle for a program that needs your specific skill set as apposed to your dream school. 5 willingness to entertain D1 or D2 offers (D2 money is equally green). 6 field of study. 7 timing and ability to negotiate with coaches. 8 ability to finance a small world tour of camps and clinics for exposure.
The point is there is plenty of money and plenty of programs. Scholarship amounts are all different for reasons stated above.
My advice is enter the process with an open mind and BE HONEST WITH COACHES. THEY ALL KNOW EACH OTHER!