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Has anyone ever had issues with trainer no showing to sessions. paid for sessions up front for a goalie trainer. Adult female, Mid 30s, played D1, based in Suffolk. Owes us 14 sessions (tried to be understanding person and purchase upfront as she seemed to be going through tough times). She has gone silent and MIA for the past 2 weeks. Has no showed in the past and always get excuses from her… flat tire, accident, doctor, mixed up schedule etc. She says no one forced us to pay for sessions upfront lol. How public would you make this? She pretty much stole money from us. Not returning calls, emails or instagram messages. What would u do? Legal route (attorney in home), public notice on social media (tagging of her club, college, an other clubs to stay away etc)? What would you do?

What I wouldn’t do is go on the internet and put everything about this trainer but her name and blood type in your post. It’s obvious you’re trying to embarrass her. If anyone trains a goalie they know who this is, and she’s a good kid. Instead of running to social media for a public stoning, settle up face to face. If you have an “attorney in home” they are already probably advising you the legal route to $500 - $1000 it not worth the to time.

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Has anyone ever had issues with trainer no showing to sessions. paid for sessions up front for a goalie trainer. Adult female, Mid 30s, played D1, based in Suffolk. Owes us 14 sessions (tried to be understanding person and purchase upfront as she seemed to be going through tough times). She has gone silent and MIA for the past 2 weeks. Has no showed in the past and always get excuses from her… flat tire, accident, doctor, mixed up schedule etc. She says no one forced us to pay for sessions upfront lol. How public would you make this? She pretty much stole money from us. Not returning calls, emails or instagram messages. What would u do? Legal route (attorney in home), public notice on social media (tagging of her club, college, an other clubs to stay away etc)? What would you do?

What I wouldn’t do is go on the internet and put everything about this trainer but her name and blood type in your post. It’s obvious you’re trying to embarrass her. If anyone trains a goalie they know who this is, and she’s a good kid. Instead of running to social media for a public stoning, settle up face to face. If you have an “attorney in home” they are already probably advising you the legal route to $500 - $1000 it not worth the to time.

No, The thief should be called out on social Media. Sorry Mom, the good kid is a thief plain and simple. How about giving her some of your hard earned money to pay off her thievery to a actual nice person who gave your daughter a job.

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Has anyone ever had issues with trainer no showing to sessions. paid for sessions up front for a goalie trainer. Adult female, Mid 30s, played D1, based in Suffolk. Owes us 14 sessions (tried to be understanding person and purchase upfront as she seemed to be going through tough times). She has gone silent and MIA for the past 2 weeks. Has no showed in the past and always get excuses from her… flat tire, accident, doctor, mixed up schedule etc. She says no one forced us to pay for sessions upfront lol. How public would you make this? She pretty much stole money from us. Not returning calls, emails or instagram messages. What would u do? Legal route (attorney in home), public notice on social media (tagging of her club, college, an other clubs to stay away etc)? What would you do?

What I wouldn’t do is go on the internet and put everything about this trainer but her name and blood type in your post. It’s obvious you’re trying to embarrass her. If anyone trains a goalie they know who this is, and she’s a good kid. Instead of running to social media for a public stoning, settle up face to face. If you have an “attorney in home” they are already probably advising you the legal route to $500 - $1000 it not worth the to time.


Ok buddy “she is a good kid” that gets paid for upfront services and disappears? In what world is that ok? We text her the day before to confirm, she confirms, then no shows the next day (On multiple occasions) . Again, please do inform us in what business this makes sense.

Face to face when she doesn’t return calls or texts? if you know her, tell her to reach out to me as would like to resolve amicably.




please use some logic before replying next time.

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Has anyone ever had issues with trainer no showing to sessions. paid for sessions up front for a goalie trainer. Adult female, Mid 30s, played D1, based in Suffolk. Owes us 14 sessions (tried to be understanding person and purchase upfront as she seemed to be going through tough times). She has gone silent and MIA for the past 2 weeks. Has no showed in the past and always get excuses from her… flat tire, accident, doctor, mixed up schedule etc. She says no one forced us to pay for sessions upfront lol. How public would you make this? She pretty much stole money from us. Not returning calls, emails or instagram messages. What would u do? Legal route (attorney in home), public notice on social media (tagging of her club, college, an other clubs to stay away etc)? What would you do?

What I wouldn’t do is go on the internet and put everything about this trainer but her name and blood type in your post. It’s obvious you’re trying to embarrass her. If anyone trains a goalie they know who this is, and she’s a good kid. Instead of running to social media for a public stoning, settle up face to face. If you have an “attorney in home” they are already probably advising you the legal route to $500 - $1000 it not worth the to time.


Ok buddy “she is a good kid” that gets paid for upfront services and disappears? In what world is that ok? We text her the day before to confirm, she confirms, then no shows the next day (On multiple occasions) . Again, please do inform us in what business this makes sense.

Face to face when she doesn’t return calls or texts? if you know her, tell her to reach out to me as would like to resolve amicably.
please use some logic before replying next time.

The thief should be called out if she doesnt give you all the money back immediately. Ignore her mom,

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Only 1 Long Island recruit and zero Long Island goalies so far. Not a good look for Long Island 2026s

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Its way early in the process. The top LI girls will all be committed in the next 2 weeks. Girls are starting campus visits this weekend.

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Agree… still believe YJ, Top Guns, and Liberty remain as the main feeders to College ball, Look at historical commits and ask yourself which recruiting coordinator you want in your daughters corner

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Jesters is now in the picture and will become more relevant with the new management. They are becoming a better program every year and attracting LI top talent. They will be one of the top clubs going forward on LI.

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What new management does Jesters have? KK not in the mix anymore?

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Its way early in the process. The top LI girls will all be committed in the next 2 weeks. Girls are starting campus visits this weekend.
you were right… a lot over the weekend and hopefully more to come! Good luck to the 2026 parents!

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No club prepares to their athletes for the recruitment process like TG. From the start of the process to the prep for 9/1. Guidance once the process starts, always available by text or phone. This is what its about getting your kid recruited and prepared for playing in college, not t-shirts in 6th grade.

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No club prepares to their athletes for the recruitment process like TG. From the start of the process to the prep for 9/1. Guidance once the process starts, always available by text or phone. This is what its about getting your kid recruited and prepared for playing in college, not t-shirts in 6th grade.


I dunno about the goalies tho…. Seems like a lot of attention to the field players which makes sense and I get it. Think YJ, Liberty, and Legacy have had notable goalie commits in recent years.

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Check your notes......get them updated.

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Has anyone ever had issues with trainer no showing to sessions. paid for sessions up front for a goalie trainer. Adult female, Mid 30s, played D1, based in Suffolk. Owes us 14 sessions (tried to be understanding person and purchase upfront as she seemed to be going through tough times). She has gone silent and MIA for the past 2 weeks. Has no showed in the past and always get excuses from her… flat tire, accident, doctor, mixed up schedule etc. She says no one forced us to pay for sessions upfront lol. How public would you make this? She pretty much stole money from us. Not returning calls, emails or instagram messages. What would u do? Legal route (attorney in home), public notice on social media (tagging of her club, college, an other clubs to stay away etc)? What would you do?

You are not the only one.

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Has anyone ever had issues with trainer no showing to sessions. paid for sessions up front for a goalie trainer. Adult female, Mid 30s, played D1, based in Suffolk. Owes us 14 sessions (tried to be understanding person and purchase upfront as she seemed to be going through tough times). She has gone silent and MIA for the past 2 weeks. Has no showed in the past and always get excuses from her… flat tire, accident, doctor, mixed up schedule etc. She says no one forced us to pay for sessions upfront lol. How public would you make this? She pretty much stole money from us. Not returning calls, emails or instagram messages. What would u do? Legal route (attorney in home), public notice on social media (tagging of her club, college, an other clubs to stay away etc)? What would you do?

You are not the only one.


She stop posting and turned her phone off for 2 weeks so I imagine upset people are trying to reach her. Thinking of reporting to USA lacrosse because have heard that she is interviewing with them. Would be great if additional folks could message via the misconduct reporting page on USA lacrosse website. She is literally stealing. It’s a shame she did not learn anything at Loyola, Notre dame, JMU. As I write this… now I know why she cannot hold a coaching position. What a disappointment.

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Has anyone ever had issues with trainer no showing to sessions. paid for sessions up front for a goalie trainer. Adult female, Mid 30s, played D1, based in Suffolk. Owes us 14 sessions (tried to be understanding person and purchase upfront as she seemed to be going through tough times). She has gone silent and MIA for the past 2 weeks. Has no showed in the past and always get excuses from her… flat tire, accident, doctor, mixed up schedule etc. She says no one forced us to pay for sessions upfront lol. How public would you make this? She pretty much stole money from us. Not returning calls, emails or instagram messages. What would u do? Legal route (attorney in home), public notice on social media (tagging of her club, college, an other clubs to stay away etc)? What would you do?

You are not the only one.


She stop posting and turned her phone off for 2 weeks so I imagine upset people are trying to reach her. Thinking of reporting to USA lacrosse because have heard that she is interviewing with them. Would be great if additional folks could message via the misconduct reporting page on USA lacrosse website. She is literally stealing. It’s a shame she did not learn anything at Loyola, Notre dame, JMU. As I write this… now I know why she cannot hold a coaching position. What a disappointment.

Once a thief always a thief, must have been one in college too. Someone should post her name and put, looking for XXXXX, I paid her for lessons and am trying to get ahold of her... Nothing wrong with that and lets others know what this thief is up to.

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I know posting names here is typically not allowed but in this case it should be. It prevents people from being scammed and losing money.

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I know posting names here is typically not allowed but in this case it should be. It prevents people from being scammed and losing money.

Will give her some time to resolve any issues she is having.

Otherwise, I will be posting the name here on Tuesday October 1st at 12 noon.

Stayed tuned….

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I know posting names here is typically not allowed but in this case it should be. It prevents people from being scammed and losing money.

Will give her some time to resolve any issues she is having.

Otherwise, I will be posting the name here on Tuesday October 1st at 12 noon.

Stayed tuned….

Oct 1 at High Noon ? This isnt a duel, We will have forgotten by then. Give her a few more days , then publish . She doesnt deserve extra time

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I know posting names here is typically not allowed but in this case it should be. It prevents people from being scammed and losing money.

Will give her some time to resolve any issues she is having.

Otherwise, I will be posting the name here on Tuesday October 1st at 12 noon.

Stayed tuned….

Oct 1 at High Noon ? This isnt a duel, We will have forgotten by then. Give her a few more days , then publish . She doesnt deserve extra time


Her name is Kerry Stoothoff- any goalie parents please be aware. Do not engage. She is based out of Bayport. Complete disgrace to the Loyola, notre dame and JMU family. Also still on the Legacy Lacrosse page as a goalie trainer.

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I know posting names here is typically not allowed but in this case it should be. It prevents people from being scammed and losing money.

Will give her some time to resolve any issues she is having.

Otherwise, I will be posting the name here on Tuesday October 1st at 12 noon.

Stayed tuned….

Oct 1 at High Noon ? This isnt a duel, We will have forgotten by then. Give her a few more days , then publish . She doesnt deserve extra time


Her name is Kerry Stoothoff- any goalie parents please be aware. Do not engage. She is based out of Bayport. Complete disgrace to the Loyola, notre dame and JMU family. Also still on the Legacy Lacrosse page as a goalie trainer.


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I know posting names here is typically not allowed but in this case it should be. It prevents people from being scammed and losing money.

Will give her some time to resolve any issues she is having.

Otherwise, I will be posting the name here on Tuesday October 1st at 12 noon.

Stayed tuned….

Oct 1 at High Noon ? This isnt a duel, We will have forgotten by then. Give her a few more days , then publish . She doesnt deserve extra time


Her name is Kerry Stoothoff- any goalie parents please be aware. Do not engage. She is based out of Bayport. Complete disgrace to the Loyola, notre dame and JMU family. Also still on the Legacy Lacrosse page as a goalie trainer.

She should be ashamed of herself for doing that. Lets hope this spreads like wild fire and hears about it from people who know her. Maybe she pays her debt then. I dont have much hope as once a thief, usually again a thief.

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