""Get a grip. Even a kid who has reclassed does not outweigh all the other kids by "50-70 lbs".
Sorry your son isn't very good.""

While I agree 50-70 is extreme, Letting a select group of 10 year olds play against 9 year olds , 13 year olds play aginst 12 year old, etc.. Maybe you need to get a grip and realize this grade base issue to accommodate a special group of players goes against everything in youth sports...