I sat through a recruiting 101 in Florida at Blue chip try outs. It was helpful, but there really are no answers. the most common thing I have heard is that you will know when your kid is being recruited. I guess that means the colleges are persistent if they want your child.

The emails that say Dear Kid, i am coach of blah blah and while rules prohibit me from calling you...I can send this email requesting that you fill out the attached questionnaire...

We have a bunch but I think as previous poster said, this is just from the JR camp. Probably sent the coaches the list of participants and then someone in coach's office sends a form letter. I think filling out those forms is a good idea but I think a follow up email with "where I will be playing this summer" is good form. Further, if you know where you would like to go, I would also invest in a highlight real, home made looks fine to me and send that out as well.

then, let the chips fall where they fall...