No. they should be playing for the enjoyment, if they plan to play in college or not. As a parent I personally enjoy the travel to the tournaments in the summer. We make plans around the destinations. If your not enjoying that aspect of it, and just going through the motions to try to get a college scholarship, it's not worth it at all. It is a lot of time and money spent over the years and the truth is much more money is spent on this sport (on the whole) than will ever get handed out in scholarships.