I understand about someone's private life being off limits in most cases, but we are talking about someone coaching 17-22 year old young women. It's the complete cloak of silence that causes me real concern reading these posts. When your a high level coach dealing with young people, all your actions are subject to public scrutiny. My only question is would this be a much bigger issue if the coach were a man? I detest to even go down that path, but the "percieved cover up" make me think the worst.