If the team loses, the best girls leave and the coach stinks. If the team wins, the worst girls parents complain and the coach plays favorites. Must be a real challenge for every program, director and coach to thread that needle where every team wins, every girl plays equal time, no coach has a daughter on the team and every parent has a realistic view of their daughters talents. Frankly, we were all better off when there was only a high school team and our parents could care less about where or how much we played and there only concern was being home for dinner after being out all day with our friends.