BBL's AH working the phones and bashing other clubs in text and while on the phone. Threatening players and parents. If you are that great of a program why so unprofessional?
Threatening players and parents is the number one sign to run as fast as you can
Sounds like your kid is leaving BBL
My kid was never there, but probably more about geography and traveling for practice. But if a director is threatening parents and players, that is not a good sign. You need to have a thick skin in this business, kids jump ship all of the time for many reasons, especially in eighth grade. However, if kids are leaving because the club is mismanaged, then it's time to reevaluate your priorities.