Agreed - no need to single out specific kids. It’s definitely not the child’s fault where the parents/programs chose to play them.

Some parents want their kids to play with younger kids (and learn in the classroom) with younger kids.

To each their own.

It’s tremendously unimpressive in the grand scheme to watch 12/13 year olds beat up on 10/11 year olds - but this is the world of wealthy, private school, blue blood lacrosse.