Here is what I don't understand. Someone is on here berating the HOCO team/coach constantly. If you are a HOCO parent - leave the club. You are obviously unhappy. If you are not a HOCO parent - GET A LIFE. You are an adult with nothing else to do but talk about other kids coaches . Why do you even care. I thought this was supposed to be a forum to discuss lacrosse issues, not for grown ups with nothing else to do, to talk about kids teams and coaches. Your kids lacrosse shouldn't be your life.