As an outsider (public school parent) this thread is fascinating. Moreover, I keep reading about the father & Im well aware there is a pathology within dynamics of McD, MnD, UA, etc. I am sincere when I ask how does this happen? How does this man strategically engineer EVERYTHING? Its incinsivable to me grown adults allow themselves to me manipulated and/or allow this man to get away with this behavior. How is this possible?