Couldn't agree more. Whatever level your son is at, just push him to be the best of his capabilities. It really doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things if he is an Elite or a B player. You can't make a living playing lacrosse. He won't remember how many games he won when he was 12-13, he'll remember if he was happy when he played lacrosse way back when.
And if all else fans, just turn him in to an artard re re and make him repeat a grade for the sake of a club directors pride and pockets, That works as well