INo 14 year olds. Sorry but Hawks are just better than you. Question for you, how many hours a day does your son play xbox or playstation? My son trains. Your son plays Fortnite. That is the difference.
My son is 12 (turned 12 this summer) so he goes to school and hangs out with his lifelong friends. He plays a lot of xbox, but still has probably shut your son down on the field as he's 5'10" 150 and a better natural athlete than your son. Even if/when others catch up, he's been having more fun and getting better grades than your Hawk son whose life will end in a few years when club lax is over. Enjoy your vicarious life, Hawk Dad.