Very well said. Also it’s so true when parents say they want to play with their friends, I’m assuming baseball, hockey, football, soccer and basketball players have friends. Kids who play other sports also have friends, right? I read this earlier, but so true. Most kids play 2 or 3 sports. What do these parents do. One sport play appropriate age, lax hold him back to be the oldest. Some parents do the right thing, some parents don’t. Holdback parents, just sit there silently because their is no valid response. Manipulate the system silently. Maybe you can sneak through YOUTH lacrosse and nobody will find out your son is playing a year down.