That’s what’s wrong with some people. Look at the previous post. The guy said “win the race.” In my eyes the race is about my son succeeding. First academically. Being that we are on a lacrosse site, the race is playing well in high school. Maybe if he chooses past high school. That’s the race. Not the teams youth lacrosse record. Some people just don’t grasp this. Usually these people, this is their oldest kid. People who have been through this know better.