If your rating teams on wins and loses you are 100 percent correct. Express and 91 are the best. This must be your first child going through this I get it. You just don’t understand. Wins and loses mean little. Sure it’s nice, but it means very little. Ask most of those express and 91 parents if they are happy. I’ll bet half the team isn’t happy. Politics, playing time,back stabbing. No thanks. I’d rather my son win less games. My oldest son just graduated high school, he had a great high school career. He will be playing D1 lax next season. His club team growing up got beat by the top teams all the time. He learned the game. He had fun. Great memories. He had a terrific coach. I wouldn’t change a thing. Good luck to you and your son.