Don't go it alone. You will be blackballed. Make sure the other parents are involved in your questioning/challenging the coach/director/owner of that or ANY program. They will simply tell you if you don't like what they charge for tournaments (gouge) or if there are too many girls or not an assigned coach and you don't like it to simply leave. There is another girl out there who doesn't know and will step in and take your spot. However, if the WHOLE team is in agreement and behind the movement/challenge/message then you have strength and can effect change--like what is brewing at elevate at this age currently. whole team walks that becomes a problem that cant be addressed after the fact. Been down this road before with my older daughter. Be wary but remember ,strength in numbers.