My son would rather play on a team which values him and is reflected in the minutes he receives in games. People are crazy paying 4K/year for their sons to be on a team (not play for) and barely see the field. If it’s for braggery or hopes of getting him recruited through the organization’s “connections”, then how are you going to feel when this portion of our/their lives is over and things didn’t pan out? If your kid is talented enough, he will get noticed. If not, at least he got a chance to play and you were there to watch him.