You must be the madlax dad whose son has been on three different teams in two seasons. Joined the crabs....way too many middies...complained about playing time to everyone even though you say your boy started and did not complain about playing time. Come on own up to it. Many of the boys who left the crabs team....team hop season after season hoping their boys will crack a starting spot with a local club. Most of the drama are from parents like you and not the coaches. If I recall your son was a nice person but you were an arrogant dad who pressured your son so much - very dysfunctional.