If you are not getting better by playing travel lax (roster of 24-26) you are also nuts if you keep playing after being committed.
unfortunately thats incorrect. Even if a girls committed, they still need to play. A verbal isn't worth the paper its not written on. The college coaches come to see their commits play. at the same time, a commitment can be pulled. Then if you have stopped attending, your name is not still out there. Furthermore, there is always the possibility of another school being interested and making a better offer
Please tell us the coach that did not honor the verbal agreement they made with a player and not the usual "I heard" of a kid nonsense.