Ha you make me laugh. Leader , you come on back of the cage and degrade people and that is the actions of a LEADER? Hahaha. More the actions of a COWARD. If you want change do something about it. I suggest you start somewhere else beacause this is not the forum to do it. Otherwise , enough with all your excuses. Go cry in your coffe somewhere else. As long as your kid is getting good training that should be enough. It's 11 year old lacrosse , again 11 year old lacrosse. Eventually it all evens out when it really matters............ Real Leaders for see the future, and work on the thins that really matter.