Tim schurr has one Job, win lax games and do it in a Professional and ethical fashion. I have to give him credit for sitting the goalie, but what about the other 13 games he lost against Yorktown. Great players are not always great coaches. If your son doesn't care about winning, than go play on jv. John jay needs leadership from the top down to the bottom - schurr needs to build the culture he grew up with in Yorktown and do it here .
I believe Coach Schurr and all coaches are helping teach kids how to be mature, responsible adults. Lacrosse is a blip in their lives but they can learn so much from the experience. I don't know the details of the benching but kudos to Coach Schurr.