I am all for hard nose coaching and barking out directions to players. But you can call me a snowflake if you like but some words and saying should be outlawed on a youth playing field. Every league should have at least a 3 strike rule with all coaches. I am all for my son getting yelled at for being out of position or for being lazy on D. But if you tell him to hurt another player or call him a none lacrosse based "bad word" I will be talking to you and I will be using the words that should be band.