The on age boys will be on ESPN, feel free to enter all the grade based hold back tournaments you like, go win a few hats and t shirts, what channel are those tournaments on?
And for only $3,000 a kid, you too can be on TV.
Is none of your business how people spend their money. If you have more than everyone else and don't want to spend it - great . if you don't have the money and you cant spend it - sorry